Your path to Local Funeral Resources
From funeral directors and florists to local celebrants and venues, see what’s in your area.
Funeral language
There are many words relating to funerals that you may hear for the first time when you have to arrange or are attending a funeral. We call this ‘funeral language’.
We have listed below the most common words and phrases you might come across:
Beneficiary
Any recipient of the proceeds of a Will
Bereaved
The family and friends of the person who has died. Also see Mourners
Bequest
Any gift or property detailed in a will
Book of Remembrance
An ornate book, often at a crematorium, in which details of the person who has died can be recorded, for a charge.
Casket
The American term for a coffin, sometimes used in the UK to describe more ornate types of coffin
Cardboard Coffin
Environmentally friendly coffins made of thick card
Catafalque
The large flat table that the coffin is placed on in a crematorium
Celebrant
A professional person who is trained to deliver a funeral ceremony
Cemetery
Also referred to as a graveyard or burial ground, a location for graves
Chapel of Rest
Often at a funeral home and sometimes at a hospital, this is a quiet place where the person who has died is taken after death, where families can visit
Civil Funeral
A funeral which is driven by the wishes, beliefs and values of the deceased and their family, not by the beliefs or ideology of the person conducting the funeral. Conducted by a professional Civil Funeral Celebrant
Columbarium
A granite wall where cremated remains are placed, usually in the grounds of a crematorium
Committal
The part of a funeral ceremony where the coffin is actually laid in the grave in the case of a burial or words of final farewell are said at a cremation to signify the removal of the body from the mourners before cremation.
Coroner
An official who holds inquests into certain types of death including those that are unexplained.
Cortege
This is the funeral procession to the funeral and is made up of those attending the funeral
Cremation
A regulated process using intense heat in a chamber to burn human remains.
Crematorium
A place where cremations take place
Cremated Remains
A term used to describe the ashes of the person who has been cremated
Death Certificate
Can also be referred to as the MCCD (The Medical Cause death Certificate), a legal paper signed by a doctor detailing the cause of death
Deceased
The person who has died
Embalming
A procedure using chemicals, such as formaldehyde, to temporarily preserve human remains
Epitaph
The writing on a memorial headston
Eulogy
A speech about the life and character of the person who has died, given as part pf the funeral ceremony that offers praise and celebrates the life of the person who has died.
Executor
A person appointed under the terms of a will to carry out the terms of the will
Funeral Home/Parlour
Sometimes called a funeral parlour, this is the funeral directors’ premises, where they are based and where you might view the person who has died before the funeral takes place.
Funeral Service/Ceremony
The event that takes place at burial or cremation, attended by mourners, before disposal of the body by cremation or burial. A ceremony to remember the person who has died.
Green Funeral
Sometimes referred to as natural, woodland, eco burial and there are other terms. The aim of such a burial is to return the body to the earth in a manner that is environmentally friendly
Hearse
A funeral car provided usually by a funeral director, in which the coffin is taken to the funeral
Humanist Funeral
Conducted by a humanist officiant, these ceremonies do not contain any religious content
Inquest
A judicial inquiry to determine the facts relating to a death
Intestate
This is the situation when someone dies and leaves no will
Living Will
A document that lays out the wishes of an individual about their medical care, especially with respect to resuscitation should they be unable to make decisions at that time.
Memorial
Sometimes referred to as a headstone or a tombstone
Memorial Mason
Sometimes referred to as a Monumental Mason or a Stone mason, who makes and sells headstones
Memorial Service
A memorial service is one that occurs without the body present, usually after a funeral. Family and friends will contribute to the event which is often attended by large numbers
Mortuary
Often in a hospital, this is a place where the person who has died is placed and sometimes kept before burial or cremation
Mourners
Those who are attending a funeral
Natural Burial Ground
A location, sometimes wooded, where natural or green burials are held
Pallbearers
Those people, who may be employed by the funeral director, or family members, who carry the coffin in to the graveside or into the crematorium
Pre-planned funerals
It is now possible to pre-arrange all aspects of a funeral (including the payment for the funeral) in advance.
Probate
This is the court process of proving that a will is valid and the sorting out of financial arrangements in connection with the person’s estate.
Obituary
The words that are written about the person who has died and places in a newspaper or on an online obituary site
Urn
A container specifically made to hold the ashes or cremated remains of the person who has died.
Wake
A term often used to describe the gathering of mourners or those attending a funeral
Will
A legal document containing the intentions and wishes of person who has died about what should happen to their property and belongings, it may include the care of their remains and other matters.
Woodland Burial Ground
See Natural Burial Ground
Your path to local funeral resources starts here, browse by category:
Funeral Directors
Find a Funeral Director in your local area. There are some 4000 in the UK.
Natural Burial Grounds
Natural Burial Grounds in beauty spots, where burials can take place.
Coffin and Casket Suppliers
Probate Services
Celebrants
If a religious minister is not required, find a celebrant in your local area.
Cemeteries
There are around 14,000 cemeteries in the UK. Find one in your local area.
Bereavement Support
Bereavement Support is available throughout the UK find local support.
Venues for Wakes
Online Memorials and Memorial Services
Keep your loved ones memory alive and find Online Memorials and Memorial Services near you.
Crematoria
Find a crematorium in your local area, we have thousands to choose from.
Florists
Find the best flowers and flower arrangements for the day.
Register Offices
Where to Stay
Find hotels, bed & breakfast and other accomodation near the venue.
Our map contains listings of the organisations and services which are here to help you in your funeral plans.
The map enables you to search for the funeral services you require in your desired area, and see their exact location. The online map makes it easy to share information with family and friends.
We understand that, for many people, attending a funeral is also very difficult - there are often many questions to ask about funeral etiquette, particularly if you have never before been to a funeral. Our section 'Attending a Funeral' is a handy guide through some of the range of frequently asked questions relating to going to a funeral.
There is also a useful list of funeral services and organisations providing bereavement support, relevant charities and funeral language to help you understand the various terms associated with planning a funeral service.
If you provide any services in relation to funerals and would like to be included on the map, further information can be found here.
Get on The Map
Get your business listed on FuneralMap and help people find you in their time of need.
Funeral Choices
Decisions such as whether there should be a cremation or burial, the type of funeral ceremony, flowers, music and poetry for the ceremony, how to find an undertaker or funeral director and someone to lead the ceremony; all of these will be key as to how the day goes and we want to take the stress out of planning a funeral service.
Cremation or burial?
The person who has died may have made it clear whether they preferred burial or cremation for their funeral.
Coffins and caskets
The choice of coffin can be bewildering, we explain in detail the various options for the type of burial proposed.
Choosing a funeral director
You need to be comfortable with the funeral director that you choose as you are putting your trust in them.
What type of funeral ceremony?
Decide how much involvement you want to have in the funeral ceremony. There are various things to consider.
Donations at funerals
Funeral donations can be made in several ways. Funeral directors will assist in organising the collections.
Choosing flowers
Flowers have been part of funerals throughout history, decide what you feel is right for the funeral.
Choosing music
Music is incredibly emotive at funerals. The right music can reflect exactly the sentiment that you want to portray.
Choosing poetry and readings
Like music, poetry and readings delivered at a funeral can really add to the ceremony.
Funeral transport
The coffin is usually taken to the funeral location in a procession of vehicles known as a cortege.
Memorials
From online or printed memory books to engraved headstones, there are many ways to create a dedicated, long lasting tribute.









