For many years, funerals have been known to be a time to dress in black, sombre clothing. But times have changed. These days, wakes are becoming more personal, and the clothes people wear are changing to reflect this. Here is some advice on how to dress at a funeral to show respect for the person who died and their family.
Colour Choices
Strong Yet Basic Colours – Black, navy, and grey are still great. They show that you are polite without being too formal.
Conservative Style – Wear clothes that are elegant rather than attractive. Stay away from clothes that are too showing, short or tight.
For women, a dark, neutral-coloured dress, skirt, or suit is a fantastic option. You can also pair dark trousers with a blouse or jumper. For men, you can still wear a suit and tie, but a dress shirt, dark pants, and a jacket can also look good. Of course, you will want to look good, but it is best to do so in a respectful way.
Think Practically
When it comes to comfort, funerals can last for a few hours. Pick clothes that make you feel good, especially if you are going to be standing for some time. The weather is important, so dress for the temperature. Try not to go over the top with your jewellery and makeup.
Respect Wishes of The Family
Check the article: Families will sometimes say what they want people to wear to the funeral in the article. Look for words like “a celebration of life” that could mean you don’t have to wear as much.
If Not Sure, Ask: There’s no problem with asking the family what they want you to wear if you’re close to them.
Things to stay away from:
- Bright Colours and Bold Patterns. Some cultures use colour at wakes, but avoiding very bright colours and loud patterns in the West is best.
- Casual clothes like jeans, t-shirts, shorts and trainers should be saved for another time.
- Clothes that show a lot of skin. Avoid short, low-cut, or see-through.
Remember that the most important thing is to honour the person who died and send your grief to their family. You can show support during this challenging time by dressing modestly and appropriately.
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